Realize that anyone who tries to put you down about your appearance is assuming that it is your job to please them visually. Once you realize that it isn’t your job to be visually pleasing to anyone, ever, it becomes very hard for anyone to make you feel bad about yourself.
Skeptifem (via albinwonderland)(via fuckthereallife)
I go through these phases of “God I’m so lonely, I just want someone to talk to and cuddle with and go out with” to “Man, I love being alone. This is it. I’d be fine without a guy forever”.
This was when I learned that you have to give up your life as you know it to get a new one: that sometimes you need to let go of everything you’re clinging to and start over, whether because you’ve outgrown it or because it’s not working anymore, or because it was wrong for you in the first place.
Kelly Cutrone. (via shadydeeds)(via shadydeeds)
